Tie Hair to Tighten Relationship

 One day, i took my time to tie my daughter's hair, with special effort. Perhaps we can call it double layer? Although it is very weird for a father to tie hair for daughter. However, while tying hair, i realized that it is a good time for me to talk to my daughter properly. Why? Because this is the best time where my daughter can't move, hahaha. Most of the time, i can't talk very long because she will walk here and walk there and going around doing her own things. Thus, while tying her hair, i started to talk softly and of course, like a papa who always talk in a movie, " ah chien ya ah chien, do you know this and that....you should do this and not do that because of .....bla bla bla."

You know what, after tying her hair, she hugged me. And for the whole day, wherever i brought her, she will hold my hand and stay so close with me. So, "FATHERS" , you know what to do next time? Yes, trust me. Tying hair for daughter will definitely tighten our relationship with her. Why?Don't believe? Try it, and you will know.
( Thanks to my wife for taking vacation for one week so i can expand my potential .... :)  and by the way, it is not an easy job to tie hair, practice make perfect !! )

Happy Father's Day

My baby like to wake up during midnight !!

There was a young couple told me one day, why my baby like to wake up at 3 am and play around actively ? At first, i thought it was normal, as their baby was just born. However, when time pass, they still face the same situation. Then only i remembered, i faced this scenario before with my daughter, coincidentally, theirs also a daughter. Is it because of gender? Or because of genetic? Or they sleep too much during daytime?

The answer is......the baby still do not recognize between day time and night time. How do i know? Actually i don't. Someone told me, perhaps based on their experiences, the baby need to be trained to recognize between dark and bright. Thus, i told the couple, just make sure you do not switch on the light when the baby awake. Use some dim light to make milk only, and quickly switch off the light. And at all time, make sure no light during night time. And during day time, try to play with her as much as possible, and of course, you cant block the sun light from the window. From these, the baby will learn to differentiate between day time and night time.

Guess what? It worked. It really worked. 

I AM BACK !!!

Wow, just can't imagine, i stopped writing for almost 2 years. A lot of things happened in my life, especially with my children. For a moment, i thought i should keep it to myself, but after second thought, i decided to share. " Sharing is Caring", a popular slogan i always heard.

Growing up is a process will never stopped. I always think that when my children grow up a little, they will behave more and it will be easier for us as parent. Ridiculous, never happened, i can guarantee you. Nothing will be easier as parent. Different stage of growing up will cause different set of scenario and challenges. Will share to you all soon.

Please welcome me back on board..... :)